Nobody likes to be barked at

The other day I saw a very common thing happen. I was at the park going for a little cruise around the lake, and I saw a runner pass by a couple with a medium-sized dog. Barking madly, the dog startled the runner. The owners proceeded to quickly apologize to the runner, and then scold the dog. The runner uncomfortably accepted the apology, gave a nod to the dog to say "I mean peace", and moved on with his midday jog. Dogs do it and people do it too, though the latter more harshly. Words hurt, especially when you bark them.

Dog taking a listen; courtesy of Creative Commons

That is why I was shocked for an OC driver to take the time to roll down his manual window and call me an asshole after I changed lanes in the lull of traffic. I was even more appalled to hear of a holiday shopper at Target who profanely insulted one of my best friends. I know things get dogged out there that bring out the inner 'bitch' but the next time you find yourself losing your temper, picture yourself as a madly barking dog. Try the cat's sly approach instead. Take a chill pill and a second to observe your surroundings before overreacting. Taking yourself, and the emotion, out of a situation can do wonders.

That being said, I bought two of my three Christmas presents online. Perhaps a turtle approach is best during holiday shopping season. Merry-done-with-shopping-day, also known as the eve before Christmas Eve, readers!